learn nonverbal language to win the courtship game

Q - I work as a barman in a dance club and each night I observe people
playing the courtship game and I have to say that what I have read in
this website is absolutely true. Men and woman exchange nonverbal
messages. To say the truth, men are not fully aware of the whole thing.
The game is completely in women's hands. I think that men could be a
lot more successful if they knew the game's rules.

Knowing, for example, that if a woman looks at you touching her
glass, averts her eyes lowering them and then looks at you again while
at the same time smoothing her skirt, you stand a very good chance of
succeeding with her, can help you relax because you know in advance
that if you approach her you won't fail (of course you need to be able
to read and understand other signals and to send your own).

A - What you say it's true. Knowing in advance what will happen makes us
feel more relaxed and, consequently, our behaviors look more 'natural'.
This, in turn, let the other person feel relaxed too and everything
goes on smoothly.