misleading signals. I don't understand her body language
Q - I met a woman last night. From my point of view, it’s been a success. The problem is that she sent misleading nonverbal signals. She alternated positive signals with messages of closure, so I'm not sure
what her real feelings are.
A - I would need a more accurate description
of her gestures and postures for an exhaustive answer to your question.
Anyway, since you said that you think it’s been a success, I would say
that her closure signals were simply to balance the open ones. She
wants to let you know she likes you but doesn't want to be perceived as
too available because she is afraid you could believe you can do
anything you want.
Just assure her about your good intentions. Cast some reassuring
nonverbal message; don't cross your legs or your arms, smile, lean
toward her when she talks. Earn her trust and she won't send closure
signals anymore.
