rejection. what to do?
Q - I have read somewhere that fear is a powerful feeling, and the fear of
rejection is devastating. It stops you; you cannot move nor do
anything. I prefer to preserve the status quo instead of venturing into
an unknown land. I really don’t know what to do about it. Please help
me.
A - The fear of rejection is like the fear of
flying; you will never get to that fabulous island until you can step
on the airplane. The fear of rejection is usually due to a lack of
self-confidence. Therefore, the best way to overcome that fear is to
boost your self-confidence and self-esteem. Start with some positive
thoughts, self-encourage yourself. If you think you are a looser, that
whatever you do you always fails, then you will always fail.
Your mind is more powerful then you think. Once you have built a
positive mind frame, you will deal with situations in a different way
and many of your fears will vanish. Approaching women then will become
no big deal, just like approaching anyone else. You probably don’t fear
to be rejected, for whatever reason, by someone when, for example, ask
for help.
The same will be true with women. Of course, it would be better to
avoid taking any risk. You can do this by knowing in advance if you can
be successful or not. Read the articles to understand how this can be
done.
