Seduction Gestures Cluster

In addition to the articles about courtship and rejection signals used by women, it’s important to specify that these signals have a specific value only if they are part of a cluster, a group of at least 3 or 4 gestures and postures produced in sequence in a period of time of a few minutes.

A glance or another gesture among the described ones, doesn't have any specific meaning by itself, it can be a simple casual movement that the person didn't even had the intention to turn toward us. She is, for instance, observing someone or something behind us or she has pushed her fingers through her hair because she felt the need to do so and not as a seduction gesture.

Therefore, the only way to be sure that those produced are courtship or rejection gestures and that they are directed to us, is to attentively observe the woman and not being satisfied by just a single gesture or posture but looking for a sort of counterproof that confirms us the meaning of that signal and accordingly the real intentions of the person that produced it.

To do this it’s necessary to verify that that first gesture is followed by at least other two or three nonverbal signals among those previously described.

If, for example, after a first eye contact the woman adverts her eyes, perhaps lowering them, she runs her hand along her hair, subsequently she smoothes her skirt, and within one minute she looks back again, then we can be reasonably sure to be in presence of a courtship sequence and not of casual gestures or signals with different meanings.