Shyness stops me

Q - I am a shy person. I have to say that I’m not so satisfied about my
relationships with women. Being unable to overcome shyness, I made it
my secret weapon to seduce women. I just play the ‘shy guy’. I have to
say that this technique works quite well 3 times out of ten. The other
seven times I fail miserably and, I am sure, my shyness is the culprit.

After reading some of the site’s articles now I am not quite sure to
be the hunter anymore. We are the preys. Women make their choice and,
with their body language, let us know they are ‘approachable’. So, in
the end, we just do what they want us to do. The problem is that, if
you are a shy person like me, you are not able to do anything at all,
even though you’ve understand their signals. Shyness prevails.

A - You are not the hunter, you are the prey. Anyway, even though the
final decision is in women's hands, we can choose, before the game
starts, which is the team we want to play against. This is a big
advantage because we can choose a woman that likes us and it will be a
lot easier then approaching someone we 'don't know'.

Of course, the only way to choose a woman based on the fact that
she likes us is to understand if she is attracted by us. This can be
done with the use of nonverbal language. Reading her body signals we
can understand, before attempting any approach, if we can have a chance
with her or if it's better to change target.