is there a remedy to my problem?
Q - I don't have too much experience with women. This is probably due to
the fact that it's not easy for me to talk to them or even just
approach them without looking awkward. Is there a remedy to this?
A - I think the best remedy is to know in
advance who you'll be approaching or talking to. When you talk to a
friend or a family member, you surely do not fear rejection. There are
many reasons for this, one being that you know that person well and she
or he knows you. There's no fear of the unknown. I can hear you saying
'what's this thing of the unknown?'. At this stage, you don't know the
person you want to approach, so she is an 'unknown object'.
This is probably the main reason why you fear rejection, you don't
know if she likes you or not. You are unsure and prefer not to take any
risk. The only way to avoid this is to know that person. But how can
you know her if you can't approach her to avoid being rejected? It's a
catch-22 situation. There's a solution to this. If you can read her
signals you can understand in advance, before making any move, if your
approach will be successful or not. That's all you need to know.
